Tuesday, October 17, 2017

Feminine + Chic Office

My office is definitely still a work in progress, but I've been getting a lot of questions about the rug in our entryway right outside of our office. So, I wanted to share the details so y'all can easily shop it. The exact rug we have is this one HERE {it is the color "nickel" option and we have the runner}. We've only had it a few months, but have really love it! While I'm at it, I wanted to share some of the details of our office decor as well. 
Since I am surrounded by a house full of boys, blue and car toys everywhere, I told Charlie that the office was going to be my "girly" room. ;) We definitely have a budget to stick to, so I have had to work with some of the existing furniture that we have (we are super lucky that we have some really nice pieces of furniture my mom passed along to us to "store" when she moved out of her house a few years ago). It has been a fun little challenge for me though!
We have had this table we use as a desk for a while, but it used to be all brown. It didn't quite have the chic look I was going for, so I decided I wanted to paint it and antique it a bit instead of getting something new. I had to play around to get it to look how I wanted it to, but I am really please with how it turned out! More details to come on this piece, how I did it and what products I used. 

The pillows (and the rug) you see are all from Kirkland's, but are currently sold out/not available on their website. I have linked some that look almost identical to them below though. I have had this chandelier since I was in high school, so I have no clue where we got it, but have linked some similar below as well! I am still trying to figure out what to do on the back wall behind the desk, but I'll know the right decor when I see it. I am definitely open to suggestions too!! 
If you know me, you know I don't like to spend a lot of money on any one item. So I absolutely LOVE Kirklands, Target, Hobby Lobby and TJ Maxx for the best home decor finds at affordable prices. They always have items that look like they're really expensive, but they are only a fraction of the price. Those are all wins in my book!
The 5-piece art collection on the back wall is from The Iron Gate in downtown Franklin, TN,  but you could easily achieve this look with white/silver frames with family pictures or art in them. Confession: they are also currently on loan from my mom since they don't fit in her condo anywhere right now, but I'm hoping I get to keep them a while since I love how they look in this room! 
We have been in our house about 7 months now, and I can tell it is going to take plenty of time for it to all be decorated the way I would like. It can be a super expensive and time consuming task, but I love getting to be creative and search for the perfect affordable pieces. I can't wait to share more home projects with y'all soon!

xoxo, Ash





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Wednesday, September 27, 2017

Riley's Birth Story

As my little man Riley sleeps and big brother Ian is in school, I thought it would be a great time to put to paper Riley's birth story. I'm not sure if I was more nervous about this delivery since I already knew what was coming, or if it put me more at ease since Ian's birth went so smoothly, but I was still scared nonetheless. 

I carried Riley super low the whole pregnancy. Ian was low too, but something was just even more uncomfortable with Riley. The first half of my pregnancy was extremely rough. I threw up day and night for almost 23 weeks. Without medicine, it was hard for me to even function. Thank goodness for my doctors office and helping me find the right medicine that worked for me and made sure I had access to it even when my insurance wouldn't cover it. Once that went away, I felt pretty well. I continued crossfitting 3 days per week once I found the medicine that controlled my morning sickness.  I am so glad that I did because I think it made huge difference in my delivery. With all of that being said, we planned to induce at 39 weeks on September 1st. 

As the evening approached, we had family lined up to watch Ian and family coming in town to meet out little man. We were supposed to be at the hospital at 5AM that morning, but got the call at 4AM that they had tons of people come into triage that night and didn't have a room for us and to check back at 7:30AM. We called in at 7:30 and the story was still the same. We checked in again at 9:30AM and nothing had changed at this time either. We were so anxious because I just wanted to know that Riley was going to be a healthy little baby boy. 

We ended up being on call until midnight that night with no luck in getting a room. Luckily my doctor had called another hospital for us and scheduled an induction there for the next morning at 7AM to make sure we were able to deliver that weekend. We got up that morning and headed to the hospital, and we were literally the only patients on the labor and delivery floor. So crazy considering they said they were swamped the day before too! But we were thrilled with the quality of service we received during our stay, so it definitely made up for the stress of the day before. 

Anyways, at 8AM when they checked me, I was only 2cm dilated. They started my pitocin drip on a very low dosage and monitored me and Riley for the next 30 minutes before upping the dosage. We both took to it well, and when they checked me an hour later, I was already 4/5cm dilated. As we had already known from my weekly doctors appointments, his head was extremely low, so he was already in great position. Around 9:30AM they came in and broke my water, and you better believe that shortly after I requested my epidural. ;) I got sick once when I was in labor with Ian, but this time I got sick multiple times before (and after) delivery.

Before we knew it I was already 8cm dilated and they were calling my doctor to head over to the hospital. I didn't really have to push that long, but his heart rate did keep dropping with I was pushing. So thankfully, he came pretty quickly and there were no issues when he was delivered, which was a huge relief. At 12:47PM, we welcome Riley Merritt into the world. It was just as beautiful of an experience as I remember it being with Ian. I cried tears of joy when I saw him for the first time and watched Charlie cut the umbilical chord. I will always remember Charlie kissing my forehead and telling me how much he loved me and how proud he was of me. It chokes me up a bit just thinking about it. I could not be more blessed to have him as my partner daily on this parenting journey. 
Riley was a perfect 8 pounds 8 ounces and 21.5 inches long. My doctor couldn't believe how big of a boy he was and neither could we (although I joked the last month of pregnancy that he was going to be big based on how much pressure I was feeling!). We were just so happy that he was finally with us and was as healthy as could be. His head full of dark hair got him a lot of attention the whole weekend at the hospital, just like his big brother Ian's did when he was born.

Thank you so much to our doctors, nurses, family and friends for the wonderful care, calls, texts, prayers, meals and words of encouragement throughout our pregnancy and since he's been born. It truly takes a village, and we couldn't be more thankful for ours. 

xoxo, Ash

*All photography by Sam Carbine*

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Monday, September 11, 2017

Favorite Bomber Jackets for Fall

Bomber jackets are the perfect transition piece for fall. It's definitely an added bonus that they are super comfortable. The one is from last year, but I have linked some of my current favorites + one super similar below.  I can't wait to shoot some new fall looks for y'all once we get in more of a routine as a family of four, but I still plan to post favorites like this over the next few weeks until then. Have a great week my friends!



{all photography above by Sam Carbine}

xoxo, Ash
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